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I am bisexual but always feels that girls attract me emotionally more than boys . When I think about hugs , kisses or romantic stuff, it is always with girls. I want to be with girl and have a love story with her , but the idea of marriage is essential thing for may parents . What I have to do ? . I'v never fallen in love with a boy . My hearts beat for girls only . There is someone told me that it'll be ok if I get married because boys arouse me sexually .what is ur opinion? .

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f4
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    I say since ur bi and know for sure why not!But what if u marry someone whos also bi ? U guys will be fine sexually , but what abt emotions? Will u seek that part outsid?, Would u be open or exclusive?

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      I don't think it would be easy to confess my emotional and sexual orientation to my future husband .. because it is not allowed in my country and my partner will not understand the idea or he will not accept this concept. If I got married to a man i'll have a secret romantic relationship with a girl ... but it is really shame because it is considered infidelity .

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f1
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    Hello, I thought I will comment here. I am 31 and have been married for 5 years. My husband and I have never had sex because he told me he was sexually abused as a child. A couple of weeks ago he told me he was gay and that is the real reason he can not have sex with me. This of course broke my heart because I love him very much but we are deciding to stay together because we love each other and want to have a family together one day.

    During our marriage I have always thought what it would be like to be with another woman and have discovered that I would like to experience that one day. Alot of my fantasies in my mind have always been about women. I would love to connect with other women here.

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    So sorry to hear this about your husband being abused. Sometimes that may be hard to work through and overcome. The good news is that there is love (strong) between the two of you to still be married. I totally understand your union and bond. Hang in there! You have a great thing going!

    • Thank you midnight. It is not easy coming to terms with it but I am proud of him to admit it. I think it has helped me to come to terms with being bi and that's why I would like to experience that with another woman

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      As I often tell those that have asked me, a sexual experience with the same sex is more so the excitement of something new a different and usually nothibg more. You may experience the same complicated heart you normally would with thr opposite sex. Try not to let any lesbian sell you a wish ticket to beleive otherwise. In tine you will see exactly whst I mean. Just keep reading these thread, it will all make sense soon.

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  • 12-16_f_w_h1_f3
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    Thank you for a great topic

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