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How you doin' guys ? Hopefully great!

Well, as I'm quite sure most of us have so many things to rant about such as an ex, a crush, a situation, family issues or homophobic people or whatever random thing that bothered you wanna vent about, go ahead and do! I mean after all if we don't have each other to whine to then who do we whine to!

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  • 17-24_f_b_h1_f2
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    okay well, you asked for it :P

    i'm angry at my last ex for taking me for granted. never appreciating me and all that i offered her.

    angry at my family for abandoning me. picking society's prying eyes over their own daughter. theyd rather have "dignity" by, lying? nothing honorable about cutting ties with a family member whose only mistake was to come out to you at a young age.

    angry at myself for hiding longer than i should have.

    also angry at myself for obsessing over a few situations revolving around unrequited love (hurts like crazy.)

    despite this i'm not an angry person at all, but thinking about these things do spark my temper. i want to put that part of myself to sleep, for good.

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    "also angry at myself for obsessing over a few situations revolving around unrequited love (hurts like crazy.)"

    Aha I hear ya hunni !

    I can rant too about my narcissistic cold hearted ex I mean obviously I'm hurt by her and I wish her so many uhmm nevermind -things- but the annoying little thing the only day I texted a "hey" just wanted to say happy ramadan and break ice but she didnt reply oh well frankly, more reasons to move on for me it didn't bother me much but it just proved me right about how selfish she is oh wellll exxxxxxessss ughh

    • 25-34_f_w_h3_f2
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      Same here! It felt a bit embarrassing but I realised later that it reflects badly on her, not me. Still sucks though. I guess we can't expect our exes to be friendly to us as it's a guaranteed disappointment.

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    • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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      Whats more annoying is how they expect you to be 100% friendly after they hurt you so much its so silly how someone comes in your life and stays for a long time then leave just like that with the lamest and shallowest excuse ever hurting you and breaking your heart and expects if you spoke later that you must be 10000% super cute and friendly and nice to them though like they're all innocent

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    • 35-50_f_w_h3_f4
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      Exes are gross. Period.

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  • 17-24_m_b_h3_f3
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    i wanna share my burn book with you guys but it's tooooooooooooooo long story

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    Oh please go ahead and do consider this your limitless venting space

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    I stumbled by this song earlier on a twitter hashtag and it turned out to be the exact of what i was feeling after my heartless ex and I broke up so I thought I'd rant about it

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VbfpW0pbvaU&feature=youtu.be

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f2
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    Well let me vent about how I'm alone most of the time not only because I haven't been in a relationship before and I'm 18 but also my close friends are homophobics and they don't even bother listening to me or anyone at all. Although I've came out to myself 3 years ago only one of my bestfriends knows I'm bi but she lives too far away from my hometown. I thought things would get better for me when I get into Uni where people are more open minded but so far I haven't met any. I'm still hoping to meet a new open minded squad that I can be myself with.

    I loved the topic thanks for posting it

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  • Lots of love to all of you!! So I don't even care about marriage that much but just want to vent about all the straight weddings and engagements I have to hear about since it's wedding season. Even though I live in the US and gay marriage is legal now, I'm so tired of hearing of my arab friends and families straight weddings knowing that it will take so long for gay arabs to be accepted in that way by our families. I can understand that even for my straight arab friends who don't believe in marriage it can be really frustrating that marriage is the only for their relationships to gain acceptance from their families. But at least they can one day get that acceptance if they just jump through the right hoops.

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    Speaking of marriages and seasons, I'm gonna rant about how my parents recently keep telling me about stupid people that wanna marry me and I don't even know them I swear How the hell do they even think about marrying someone they don't know!!! I'll never understand this. Thankfully my parents don't argue at all when I say NO! . God, its like now is mating season for straight guys!

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f3
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    well my girlfriend is leaving the country in couple months, and i have been encouraging her to do it from the beginning.. because its definitely better for any lesbian to be out of this country and i cant offer her any future at this moment so i am acting all strong around her also lying to myself that i will be fine. that's shitt really i know i wont. she will leave a hole inside me.. after 4 years spending most of the day together, i dont even remember how was life without her around. not only that, the idea that i have nothing planned for my future saying that i am just enjoying life doing what i like which wont hold me.. i know i will be lost soon and really mad at myself !!!!

    • Oh no! That sounds so heartbreaking! I'm so sorry. Is there any chance you can join her one day? Wishing you the best. Don't be mad at yourself. Be gentle with yourself, it's going to be a tough next couple of months. Your future will unfold one day at a time. You don't have to have the answers yet. Sending hugs.

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    • 17-24_f_w_h1_f3
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      awww thats sweet! well i don't know i wanna go too but my family have been protective lately although i did travel all lone before for long time but sure they want me to get married... its actually why i am blaming myself they gott abe a way to convince that i am not doing. well may be she will come back for me after couple years in a better time and live together ever after.. haha thats the optimistic romantic thoughts but we are not really planning to be exclusive when she leaves.. will always be in contact and in love thats for sure but we are leaving it to lifee.. thanks a lot!! its really nice getting it out, will need a lot of huggs and probably napkins

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    • 25-34_f_f_h2_f1
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      I'm so sorry Adena, that's so sad , but Dw u ll be fine , things like that r always hard at first but later it ll be fine , n that ur gf is leaving the country doesn't mean u ll stop loving each others , n who knows maybe soon u ll travel to her.

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    • 17-24_f_w_h1_f3
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      thanks jazz!! i wish so too

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  • 17-24_f_f_h1_f1
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    i want to vent that my girlfriend always online on her pc or her phone and does not reply my messages on time and when we on the phone she still browsing the internet

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  • 25-34_f_b_h3_f4
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    My vent/rant is that im irritated with the lack of a scene around me, im bahrain but a half and I don't speak arabic so well and every time I do out to the usual places it's so tough to integrate that im just left with straight friends around that just can't understand how I feel

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    Bringing this back for more interesting rant

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  • I just hate how we're such a minority and I really wish we could do more to make our community more accepted in all societies around the world. Being victim to societies "norms" is so frustrating sometimes! I just wish we could break out with a big thing and never have to deal with it again, but these things take time sadly

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    my rant is that a guy who became my boyfriend after convincing me im gay i know im gay now but at that time i was 19 and confused but he helped me through it we are together since 2011 now he thinks he is bi and starting a family could be a good idea NO COMMENT

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  • Aw I know how it feels to be the different one and not being able to find people like you so easily but I assure you that you will find them eventually or at least people that understand, it may take some time but they're out there and if you want a friendly advice, I tell you from now to just enjoy the college experience because it is way different than school, not as in terms of better or worse but just different and wider so just enjoy it to the most and know that its okay to even make mistakes during that time because after that, you'll be introduced to the world as a responsible adult so college is your last chance so I argue you not to waste those years focusing ONLY on finding other LGBT friends (I assure you if you mingle easily with the crowd there, you may find them easily) but just focus on the experience itself and enjoy it all. That's what I did, I didn't look for other lesbians/gays in the crowd, I just looked for friends to have fun with from different backgrounds and I got to know different people and in that mix, I did meet more than 5 fellow homosexuals without even looking So always focus on enjoying what you have rather than focusing too hard to find something you might find randomly later

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